How does one succeed in life?
11.06.2025 03:46
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
How do I convince flat earthers that the earth is round?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
That's it for today.
Ask yourself:
If women aren't shallow, why do most tall, good-looking men have girlfriends?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Have husbands and wives ever had a threesome with someone in real life? How did it happen?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
What are you struggling with in your life? What would you like to have instead?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Why do men like BBW? What is the attraction?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
How do I convince my husband that a threesome is okay?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
What I need from you?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
What's the hardest part about marriage that no one ever talks about?
Does not procrastinate.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
What is the most gay experience with your dad?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
If gays can get married, why can't I marry my dog or a cheeseburger?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Making more friends is a goal.
Why did the American's mulberry harbor not hold up after D-Day?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.